“ You do not need to be fixed. You are not broken. You have never been broken. You are not in parts. These are just thoughts. These are just beliefs. Accept your self, where you are in this moment. Accept your wholeness. That is freedom. ”
“ Nothing out in the world can provide permanent relief from the pain you feel in your heart. At best, it provides avoidance, avoidance of life, to not face your own problems, to not accept life as it is, because you want it to be different than what is present. The key to peace is total acceptance for the way life unfolds, instead of meeting life with resistance. ”
“ People only harm each other because they believe their thoughts. ”
Article: Boys Vs Men, A Difference of Character (for Women)
A boy skims the surface, chasing after women for their physical beauty, to please his own desires. After he gets what he wants he’s out. He knows he doesn’t really care about the real you but, what he can get from you. A youngsters dream, driven by his ego.
A man dives deep into the surface, being attracted at first to her physical beauty, then he steps back. He listens to her hopes, her dreams and notices her character. He is secure in himself. He lives loving another as himself. If he makes a mistake, he chooses to be better than he was before, he may struggle but he knows through suffering growth is possible.
With patience, he focuses his attention on her to know her and his own weakness and strengths. He opens his heart and he sees how both of them compliment each other well, but he knew he loved her all long. He realizes after a few years, it’s time to wife her, to make her his forever.
A man, driven by his spirit.
“ Projection makes perception. If you are lonely and single and are not comfortable being alone, you hate seeing couples in public (reality). Because, you hate that you are alone. Accepting your loneliness is the key. Vice versa, if you love being alone or in a relationship, you love seeing couples in public (reality). Your thoughts about what your hate or love, manifest in your life as a result. You are that creative. Therefore, accept the reality of what is, instead of resisting it is imperative to changing your perception of how you look your life. Otherwise, you think life is your enemy, when all along it was your friend. ”
“ Sometimes the people we love have their own issues to workout, and we ask ourselves, “What did I do wrong?” When in fact, it has nothing to do you at all. During these times it is best to not blame your self and ask, “How can I be of service to them?” All they may need is someone to listen, which helps both of you become closer. By listening, you may build a bridge, for compassion and opening your heart. Which may be the very gift they need at the time. So just be present without judgment towards yourself or another and let miracles take place. ”
“ One only carries his/her pain, because it benefits them to keep them in their hurt, to never move out of it. They love being a victim, hate when their pain is touched, they believe they can actually be hurt. Therefore, their suffering reinforces and exacerbates their version of hell. You can call that insanity. Because, why would a person who has a mind, keep themselves in a mental prison they can walk out of? They are unaware that they are doing it to themselves or they are aware, but still is attached to their illusions. Jesus, as a human being came to us embodying the Christ, to show us a way out of our own illusions. The Buddha did also. Moses did also. Job did also. Mahatma Ghandi did also. Mother Teresa did also. God limitless, has many teachers, in many forms, to reach billions of human beings, to bring them back to love, to the Divine, to realization that they are connected to every living thing. To tell you what you do to another, you do to your self. For you and them are essential One being, appearing as many, like the rays of the Sun. ”
“ Love is that which is free, it cannot be contained, possessed or put in a bottle. It can only be felt, shared and expanded. Most of us look for love in people, places and things, the last place we look is within ourselves, where it lives all along. Once a person ceases to possess, knows that, feels that, it matters less if one doesn’t give too you. Because, the love in you is not depended on someone else. ”
“ Impersonal experience is the best pointer to personal experience, the best teacher. ”
“ There comes a time each person’s life when she or he can no longer pretend to be something that she or he is not an attempt to please their parents, spouse, friend, children, community or government. The second birth, the birth of the spiritual being comes when we stop betraying our true Self and rise in the truth of who we are. This is the savior. ”
“ If your father left, when you were young, or never was in your life, it is not your fault. It is not your fault. It may feel like it is, but your father left, cause they choose to leave, not to intentionally hurt you on purpose. But, it’s also an opportunity, to have the freedom to choose and be your own man, cultivate your own wisdom and share that with your children you bring into the world, and to be there for them. ”
Article: What Is Real Never Ceases from The Bhagavad Gita
The Self dwells in the house of the body,
Which passes through childhood, youth, and old age.
So passes the Self at the time of death
Into another body. The wise know this truth
And are not deceived by it.
When the senses come in contact with sense-objects
They give rise to feelings of heat and cold,
Pleasure and pain, which come and go.
Accept them calmly, as do the wise.
The wise, who live free from pleasure and pain,
Are worthy of immortality.
What is real never ceases to be.
The unreal never is. The sages
Who realize the Self know the secret
Of what is and what is not.
Know that the Self, the ground of existence,
Can never be destroyed or diminished.
For the changeless cannot be changed.
Bodies die, not the Self that dwells therein.
Know the Self to be beyond change and death.
Therefore strive to realize this Self.
Those who look upon the Self as slayer
Or as slain have not realized the Self.
How can the Self be killed or kill
When there is only One?
Never was the Self born; never shall it
Cease to be. Without beginning or end,
Free from birth, free from death, and free from time,
How can the Self die when the body dies?
Who knows the Self to be birthless, deathless,
Not subject to the tyranny of time,
How can the Self slay or cause to be slain?
Even as we cast off worn-out garments
And put on new ones, so casts off the Self
A worn-out body and enters into
Another that is new.
Not pierced by arrows nor burnt by fire,
Affected by neither water nor wind,
The Self is not a physical creature.
Not wounded, not burnt, not wetted, not dried,
The Self is ever and everywhere,
Immovable and everlasting.
The Self cannot be known by the senses,
Nor thought by the mind, nor caught by time.
If you know this, you will not grieve.
Even if you mistake the Self to be
Subject to birth and death, you must not grieve.
For death is certain for those who are born,
As rebirth is certain for those who die.
Why grieve over what cannot be avoided?
We perceive creatures only after birth,
And after they die we perceive them not.
They are manifest only between birth
And death. In this there is no cause for grief.
Some there are who have realized the Self
In all its wonder. Others can speak of it
As wonderful. But there are many
Who don’t understand even when they hear.
Deathless is the Self in every creature.
Know this truth, and leave all sorrow behind.